1.1 Words as a reflection of the heart: What we say reveals what is in our hearts. Our words can either build up or tear down. Matthew 12:34
1.2 The destructive power of harsh words: Harsh words can cause deep wounds and stir up anger. Proverbs 15:1
1.3 The healing power of gentle words: Gentle words can soothe anger and bring healing. Proverbs 16:24
2.1 Harsh words can lead to conflict: Harsh words can escalate a situation and lead to unnecessary conflict. Proverbs 15:18
2.2 Harsh words can damage relationships: Harsh words can cause lasting damage in relationships, often leading to bitterness and resentment. Ephesians 4:29
2.3 Harsh words can harm the speaker: The one who speaks harsh words often suffers as well, as they can lead to guilt, regret, and a damaged reputation. Proverbs 13:3
3.1 Responding with gentleness: Instead of retaliating with harsh words, we should respond with gentleness and self-control. Proverbs 15:1
3.2 Seeking reconciliation: When harsh words have been spoken, we should seek reconciliation and forgiveness. Matthew 5:23-24
3.3 Using words to build up: We should use our words to encourage and build up others, not to tear them down. Ephesians 4:29
4.1 Filling our hearts with God's Word: By meditating on God's Word, we can fill our hearts with truth and love, which will be reflected in our words. Psalm 119 11 Psalm 119:11
4.2 Praying for a pure heart: We can ask God to create in us a pure heart, which will lead to pure words. Psalm 51 10 Psalm 51:10
4.3 Practicing kindness and gentleness: By practicing kindness and gentleness in our actions, we can also learn to speak kind and gentle words. Galatians 5:22-23